Sunday, August 30, 2009

Is TV Your Friend?

Your best friend?

If The Media told you to jump off a bridge, would you?

Come on and fercrissakes people - if you don't like someone why do you plunk yourself down in front of the TV and immerse yourself in the folderol?

Do you not have anything else to do?

Is there not one bird that can be fed, one dog that can be walked, one child that can be babysat, one old person in a nursing home that can be visited, one hand reached out to a lonely person? Can you not instead sit down and call that aunt, or uncle or mother? Can you not bake a loaf of bread, wash the car, create a painting or clean out a drawer? Are your clothes all laundered? Is your grass all mowed? Have you been to every art festival and neighborhood block party? Is there not one beautiful lake or mountain or stream or field or museum or church or neighborhood or garden or river or beach or meadow or interesting new road that you can walk, bike or drive to?

Can you not teach yourselves guitar? A new language or read a book? Or listen to a course on tape, or watch a new sport, or ask a young person to explain Facebook, or go buy some new walking shoes?

Do you have to watch funeral after funeral of people you hate and then spit your shit into words on a board so that you can take some weird fucking "high road" of indignation? Is that all you've got?

Did your mother ever ask you: "If x told you to jump off a bridge, would you do it?" This is the same damn thing. Just because The Media puts someone's funereal celebration all over the airwaves does NOT mean you have to watch it!

Give it a fucking rest. Turn off your TV. Take a deep breath.

Tomorrow is Monday. Have a good week.

Mom.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

For My Birthday

August 6 is my birthday. I'll be 51. I am, perhaps, the luckiest person on this planet. I hope that for the rest of my days I can keep that perspective.

In honor of my birthday I am celebrating this poem.

Her Head
Near Ekuvukeni,
in Natal, South Africa,
a woman carries water on her head.
After a year of drought,
when one child in three is at risk of death,
she returns from a distant well,
carrying water on her head.
The pumpkins are gone,
the tomatoes withered,
yet the woman carries water on her head.
The cattle kraals are empty,
the goats gaunt-
no milk now for children,
but she is carrying water on her head.
The engineers have reversed the river:
those with power can keep their power,
but one woman is carrying water on her head.
In the homelands, where the dusty crowds
watch the empty roads for water trucks,
one woman trusts herself with treasure,
and carries water on her head.
The sun does not dissuade her,
not the dried earth that blows against her,
as she carries the water on her head.
In a huge and dirty pail,
with an idle handle,
resting on a narrow can,
this woman is carrying water on her head.
This woman, who girds her neck
with safety pins, this one
who carries water on her head,
trusts her own head to bring to her people
what they need now
between life and death:
She is carrying them water on her head.
~ Joan Murray ~

As I turn on the tap, I want to think of this woman. As I join my children in Seattle - all the way across the country - and enjoy a surfeit of Opera, art, good food and family love, I want to think of this woman. As I grow older and feel the aches and pains as my feet, shoulders and neck creak into the morning activity, I want to think of this woman.

No perhaps about it - I am, indeed, the luckiest person on the planet.